The tragic murder of 24-year-old Mlli Matas has sent shockwaves through Orange County, California, raising concerns about domestic violence and the effectiveness of restraining orders. This case shines a harsh light on the devastating consequences of domestic abuse and the urgent need for systemic change.
A Love Story Turned Fatal: The Relationship Between Mlli Matas and Aaron Romo
Mlli Matas, a vibrant and beloved young woman, had her life tragically cut short in the early morning hours of March 17, 2023. Her ex-boyfriend, 36-year-old Aaron Steven Romo, was found guilty of her murder, a crime stemming from a toxic relationship plagued by domestic violence.
A History of Violence: Ignoring the Red Flags
Romo had a documented history of violence against women, with five active restraining orders against him at one point in time. This horrifying pattern of abuse extended back 15 years, according to courtroom testimonies. A chilling detail emerged during the trial: Romo’s aggression, often fueled by alcohol, was present even before his drinking escalated, indicating a deeply ingrained pattern of abusive behavior.
A Fatal Night: The Events Leading to Mlli’s Death
The night of Mlli’s murder began with Romo being ejected from a bar after a fight sparked by his unwanted advances toward another woman. Injured and enraged, he repeatedly called Mlli, begging her to pick him up, violating the restraining order she had against him for a previous assault.
Despite the order and her initial reluctance, Mlli eventually agreed to pick him up. Witnesses reported seeing Romo violently pulling a screaming Mlli into his apartment. A security guard, alarmed by the scene, called the police. Sadly, the police left when no one answered the door, a decision that would prove fatal.
Justice Delayed: The Aftermath and Trial
Mlli’s mother, unable to reach her daughter, went to Romo’s apartment and made the horrific discovery of her daughter’s lifeless body. Mlli had been brutally beaten and strangled to death. Romo was found at his current girlfriend’s home, where he allegedly attempted suicide.
During the trial, Romo’s defense attempted to argue that he couldn’t have committed the crime because he “loved her too much.” This desperate plea, devoid of any remorse or accountability, was rightfully rejected by the jury. Romo was found guilty of first-degree murder, felony domestic battery, and felony imprisonment.
A Family’s Fight for Justice: Mlli’s Law and Legacy
Mlli’s family, devastated by the loss of their beloved daughter and sister, has shown incredible strength in channeling their grief into action. Determined to prevent similar tragedies, they have established “Mlli’s Legacy Foundation,” an organization dedicated to providing resources and support for victims of domestic violence.
Furthermore, Mlli’s sister, Sandy, has become a powerful advocate for change, spearheading a petition to enact “Mlli’s Law.” This proposed legislation aims to create a publicly accessible online registry for individuals convicted of domestic violence, similar to existing sex offender registries. This vital tool would empower individuals to make informed decisions about their safety and hold abusers accountable.
Seeking Justice: Sentencing and Beyond
As the family prepares for Romo’s sentencing, scheduled for June 24th, they are urging the judge to impose the maximum sentence: life in prison without parole. Their fight for justice, fueled by the memory of their beloved Mlli, stands as a beacon of hope and a powerful call for action.
The tragic death of Mlli Matas serves as a stark reminder of the devastating impact of domestic violence and the need for increased awareness, prevention, and intervention. We must work together to create a world where love doesn’t equal possession or control, and where everyone can live free from fear.